Monday, April 21, 2008

Decisions??

(Content taken from a mail "An Interesting Insight into Decision Making")

A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use while the other unused. Only one child played on the disused track, the rest on the operational track.
The train is coming, and you are just beside the track interchange. You can make the train change its course to the unused track and save most of the kids. However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the disused track would be sacrificed. Or would you rather let the train go its way?

Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could make................
Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child. You might think the same way, I guess. Exactly, I thought the same way initially because to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and emotionally.

But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play onthe disused track had in fact made the right decision to play at a safe place?
Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was. This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday. In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the interest ofthe majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how far-sighted and knowledgeable the minority are. The child who chose not toplay with the rest on the operational track was sidelined. And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him.

The great critic Leo Velski Julian who told the story said he would not try to change the course of the train because he believed that the kids playing on the operational track should have known very well that track was still in use, and that they should have run away if they heard the train's sirens. If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track! Moreover,that track was not in use probably because it was not safe. If the train was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all passengers on board at stake! And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few kids.
While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.
"Remember that what's right isn't always popular... and what's popular isn't always right."

Everybody makes mistakes; that's why they put erasers on pencils.

Friday, April 11, 2008

Going Back Home!

Well! I am going home and won't be active on blog from 12th to 21st of April, for sure!

Till then,
Kuch toota-phoota:

It has been too long..
My eyes are crying,
To get some Rest.
And mind saying,
I've already given my Best.
So, I'm going back,
To my sweet home,
Same in the way,
A bird returns to Nest!

See you all after coming back!!

Sunday, April 6, 2008

Don't cheat yourself!

Last night, I was sitting in the stairs, staring at the starry sky and enjoying the cool wind. Everything was usual until this thought struck to my mind. All of a sudden, so many such instances popped up in my mind and I was blank. Instances related to myself or anyone whom I have known!

Why do we prefer to be dishonest to ourselves while making few decisions?
Why do we create the useless debate between heart and mind in the discussions where heart should always be given priority?
Whom do we want to prove that we are correct with our decision?
Why can't we just go out and pursue our interests?
Why is it so tough? Why do we cheat ourselves???

Our heart is always clear enough about our interests but somehow, if it looks tough to pursue them, we will go with what our mind says "To pursue the easier/well-tried options and attempting to convert them into our new interests." For the moment, it looks such a great decision but later in our life, we will realize how wrong it was and how much adverse impact it had caused to our lives!

We will find ourselves at a point from where we just don't want to move ahead because the journey becomes so tiring; there won't be a sense of satisfaction/motivation. Moreover, the path which we want to take from there would have been left far behind and we will be left with no option other than regretting as we will be a failure to ourselves. Then, it just doesn't matter whether people treat you as a success or not, you know the reality better than anyone else!

The key is to make the right choices at the various junctures of life. Don't think of bypassing the challenges and don't take a path just because it is more challenging too. Don't think about people around as in what they will think about your decision. It's your life and you better know how to live it. People's thoughts keep on changing but you may not have an option to change your decision later. Be honest to yourself.

Remember, these are the decisions which may make you a success, a satisfied person, a winner, a legend!
The sooner you realize it, the better it is.

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

For the Fool's Day.

I was the fool; I am a fool. But I don't have any problem letting it be that way.